# The Best Gay Sex

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The home of Dr. Hoppe's podcast and sex coach services for gay, bisexual, and queer men.

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## Posts

- [S01E15 - "Sexual Freedom" ft. David Wichman](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e15-sexual-freedom-ft-david-wichman/): OVERVIEW: For the Season 1 finale of The Best Gay Sex Podcast, I’m joined by author and sex worker David Wichman to talk about sexual freedom—and why it matters now more than ever. Drawing from his new book "The Four Rooms," David shares how surviving a rough childhood, navigating survival sex work, and finding queer
- [S01E14 - "Mentorship" ft. Master J. Tebias Perry](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e14-mentorship-ft-master-j-tebias-perry/): OVERVIEW: What do fisting parties, military discipline, and chosen family have in common? According to Master J. Tebias Perry—a leather legend and author of Leather Mentorship—they're all part of the kinky, complicated path to becoming your authentic, sex-drenched self. In this juicy episode, Dr. Trevor Hoppe dives deep with Master Tebias about the power of
- [S01E13 - "Masculinity" ft. Nolberto Gonzalez](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e13-masculinity-ft-nolberto-gonzalez/): OVERVIEW: What does it mean to be a man? For many of us gay boys, masculinity wasn’t a choice—it was something we were punished for lacking. From childhood bullying to family silence, we grew up navigating a world that demanded we toughen up. But what if masculinity isn’t all bad? What if we can reclaim
- [E01E12 - "Bating" ft. Bryan Bance](https://thebestgaysex.net/e01e12-bating-ft-bryan-bance/): OVERVIEW: Masturbation: the gateway to blindness, hairy palms, and eternal damnation—or so the worst sex ed class you ever sat through might have told you. But in reality, self-pleasure isn’t just a solo act; for some, it’s a whole community. I’m joined by Bryan Bance, a seasoned bator who’s taken his love of self-pleasure to
- [S01E11 - "Monogamy" ft. Jersey O'Mari Lavish](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e11-monogamy-ft-jersey-omari-lavish/): OVERVIEW: Monogamy? In the gay community? I know, I know—it’s practically a four-letter word. But today, we’re talking about why monogamy is valid (and that's on period). My guest, award-winning male drag entertainer Jersey O’Mari Lavish, grew up with two preacher parents who showed him what commitment could look like. But navigating love and sex
- [S01E10 - "Taking Time" ft. Manny Ocasio](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e10-taking-time-ft-manny-ocasio/): OVERVIEW: In a world of fast food, fast fashion, and even faster Grindr hookups, slowing down can feel almost rebellious. But today’s guest, Manny Ocasio, host of the "Girl, Bye" podcast, is here to remind us that the best sex isn’t rushed—it’s savored. Manny shares how growing up with a gay dad shaped his journey,
- [S01E09 - "Bearing Witness" ft. Sister T'Aint A Virgin](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e09-bearing-witness-ft-sister-taint-a-virgin/): OVERVIEW: What does it mean to bear witness to pleasure? In this episode, I sit down with Sister T’Aint A Virgin from the legendary Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. From the radical origins of the Sisters’ activism during the AIDS epidemic to their modern mission of expiating shame and spreading joy, we explore how witnessing sex
- [S01E08 - "Slut Pride" ft. Charles Sanchez](https://thebestgaysex.net/slut-pride-ft-charles-sanchez/): What if being a slut was something to celebrate? Join me, Dr. Trevor Hoppe, on this episode of The Best Gay Sex Podcast as I chat with Charles Sanchez, actor, writer, director, and Contributing Editor at TheBody.com, about reclaiming the word "slut" as a source of pride and liberation. From his musical web series Merce to navigating slutty adventures (and the occasional mishap, hello Mpox), Charles shares his journey of embracing sexual agency, dismantling shame, and finding joy in authentic connections. Whether you're a self-proclaimed slut or just curious, this episode will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about desire.
- [S01E07 - "Compersion" ft. TT Baum](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e07-compersion-ft-tt-baum/): OVERVIEW: What’s the opposite of jealousy? Enter compersion—a radical concept that could transform the way we experience love, sex, and intimacy. In this episode, Dr. Trevor Hoppe sits down with TT Baum, a sacred intimate with over 20 years of experience in sex work, sex education, and tantric practice. Together, they dive into the art
- [S01E06 - "Intimacy" ft. Shane Lukas](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e06-intimacy-ft-shane-lukas/): OVERVIEW: What makes for truly great sex? Sure, physical attraction matters, but at the heart of the best experiences is something deeper: intimacy. This week, host Dr. Trevor Hoppe sits down with Shane Lukas, a sex worker turned entrepreneur whose empathy-driven design business, A Great Idea, helps foster connection and community. From growing up queer
- [S01E05 - "Honesty" ft. Acep Gates](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e05-honesty-ft-acep-gates/): OVERVIEW: Being honest isn’t always easy, especially when it means going against the grain. In this episode, I talk with Acep Gates, a trailblazing gay, HIV-positive content creator living in Indonesia, where being out can come with dangerous consequences. Acep opens up about his first sexual experiences, navigating dating apps in a country where Grindr
- [S01E04 - "Reputation" ft. Rodney McCoy](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e04-reputation-ft-rodney-mccoy/): OVERVIEW: Reputation. Whether you’re owning it like Taylor Swift or dodging it like Shawn Mendes, it seems like everyone has something to say about what others say about them. In this episode, I’m joined by the inimitable Rodney McCoy, who has spent decades in the queer scene building a name for himself—one satisfied partner at
- [S01E02 - "Liberation" ft. Alex Garner](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e02-liberation-ft-alex-garner/): Dr. Trevor Hoppe sits down with long-time HIV activist and community organizer Alex Garner for a candid conversation about gay men's sexual culture, cruising, and the journey to sexual liberation. With over 30 years of experience in queer advocacy and living with HIV,
- [S01E03 - "Practice" ft. Alexander Cheves](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e03-practice-ft-alexander-cheves/): OVERVIEW: They say practice makes perfect — and when it comes to sex, I couldn’t agree more. In this episode, join me, Dr. Trevor Hoppe, as I sit down with the incredible Alexander Cheves, author of "My Love is a Beast" and longtime sex columnist for "The Advocate." We dive deep into his wild journey
- [S01E01 - "Pleasure" ft. Damon L. Jacobs](https://thebestgaysex.net/s01e01-pleasure-ft-damon-l-jacobs/): Overview: On the premiere episode of The Best Gay Sex Podcast, Dr. Trevor Hoppe interviews Damon L. Jacobs about his journey as a gay men's health advocate and how he centers pleasure in his work. He reflects on the impact of the AIDS crisis on his sexual awakening in the 1980s and the fear and

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- [Home](https://thebestgaysex.net/): Home of Dr. Trevor Hoppe's "The Best Gay Sex" podcast and coaching services.
- [About Dr. Hoppe](https://thebestgaysex.net/about-dr-hoppe/): About Dr. Hoppe About Dr. Hoppe My journey Dr. Hoppe came out as gay at the age of 14 in Charlotte, NC. His lifelong mission to promote pleasure and combat stigma started early. For his high school senior project, he staged a musical review raising money for the international AIDS Vaccine Initiative. Over the last 25
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- [Podcast](https://thebestgaysex.net/podcast/): Podcast Default Default Sort: Default Oldest To Newest Newest to Oldest S01E15 - "Sexual Freedom" ft. David Wichman OVERVIEW: For the Season 1 finale of The Best Gay Sex Podcast, I’m joined by author and sex worker... Read More S01E14 - "Mentorship" ft. Master J. Tebias Perry OVERVIEW: What do fisting parties, military discipline, and
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