About Dr. Hoppe

About Dr. Hoppe

My journey

Dr. Hoppe came out as gay at the age of 14 in Charlotte, NC. His lifelong mission to promote pleasure and combat stigma started early. For his high school senior project, he staged a musical review raising money for the international AIDS Vaccine Initiative. 

Over the last 25 years, he has been a pioneer in the gay men’s health movement and a leading expert on HIV and sex.

Today, he lives in Charlotte, NC with his loving husband of more than 10 years and their elderly cat Nomi (Showgirls, anyone?).

My training

Dr. Hoppe’s journey into the field of sexualities studies began as an undergraduate at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, where he became the first student to graduate with a minor in sexuality studies.

He continued his education at San Francisco State University, earning a master’s degree in Sexualities Studies. His thesis explored how gay men navigate pleasure and risk in a post-AIDS era.

At the University of Michigan, Dr. Hoppe studied under renowned experts in LGBTQ studies, including David Halperin and Gayle Rubin. His groundbreaking research on bottom identity was one of the first of its kind, demonstrating that “bottom” is more than an empty label—it directly shapes how gay men engage with pleasure and navigate power dynamics in their sexual lives.

At Michigan, Dr. Hoppe received a Master of Public Health degree in Health Behavior and Health Education, as well as a doctorate degree in Sociology and Women’s Studies. Notably, he was the first man to earn a PhD from Michigan’s prestigious Women’s Studies program. His research has focused extensively on gay men’s health and HIV, and he has published and presented on these topics around the world.

Dr. Hoppe has shared his expertise globally, delivering talks at Harvard Law School and presenting at conferences from Washington, D.C., to Durban, South Africa. His research has earned numerous accolades, including a Lambda Literary Award and recognition from POZ Magazine.

Today, through his podcast and coaching services, Dr. Hoppe is shifting the conversation to put pleasure first for gay, bisexual, and queer men everywhere.

My books and essays

Testimonials

What People Are Saying

Unsafe Words: Queering Consent in the #MeToo Era

Queer people may not have invented sex, but queers have long been pioneers in imagining new ways to have it. Yet their voices have been largely absent from the #MeToo conversation. What can queer people learn from the #MeToo conversation? And what can queer communities teach the rest of the world about ethical sex? This provocative book brings together academics, activists, artists, and sex workers to tackle challenging questions about sex, power, consent, and harm.

Punishing Disease: HIV and the Criminalization of Sickness

From the very beginning of the epidemic, AIDS was linked to punishment. Calls to punish people living with HIV – mostly stigmatized minorities – began before doctors had even settled on a name for the disease. Punitive attitudes towards AIDS prompted lawmakers around the country to introduce legislation aimed at criminalizing the behaviors of people living with HIV. Punishing Disease explains how this happened —and its consequences. With the door to criminalizing sickness now open, what other ailments will follow? As lawmakers move to tack on additional diseases such as hepatitis and meningitis to existing law, the question is more than academic

The War on Sex

The past fifty years are conventionally understood to have witnessed an uninterrupted expansion of sexual rights and liberties in the United States. This state-of-the-art collection tells a different story: while progress has been made in marriage equality, reproductive rights, access to birth control, and other areas, government and civil society are waging a war on stigmatized sex by means of law, surveillance, and social control.

Beyond Masculinity: Essays by Queer Men on Gender and Politics

Beyond Masculinity is a groundbreaking collection of 22 provocative essays on sexuality, gender, and politics — all written by gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer men. Part audiobook, part-blog, and part-anthology, brings together a smart, diverse group of queer male writers all critically examining maleness and the construction of masculinity and gender norms for men. Contributions focus on five key areas: Desire, Sex and Sexuality; Negotiating Identities; Queer Feminist Politics; Beyond Binary Gender; and Transforming Masculinity.